Partners have some sense of this; about whether the issues that they’re facing are workable or not, and whether they’re willing to work on it ... .
If you’re someone who’s in the marriage and you’ve just decided that ‘That’s it’, you don’t want to do this any more, then working on it probably isn’t going to make much difference.
But if it really is more of a case where you’re feeling like you’ve been growing apart, you’re not communicating well, there are certainly things you can do ... where you can work on ... spending more time together listening to each other and improving your communication skills ... .
Denise Bartell
The University of Wisconsin- Green Bay
Associate Professor of Human Development and Psychology
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